…I’d like to plan what I will do on MY days off. I don’t have that much spare time. And just because I get a day off, doesn’t mean I want you to rearrange your schedule so we can be off at the same time and do something together. This is not about not wanting to spend time with you, it’s about me periodically wanting (NEEDING!) to do what I want to do when I want to do it!
(ed. note: I feel the same way sometimes!)